look at yourself and ask yourself, what do you want to do every day for the rest of your life and do that. you can do an 'easy way out' or 'makes a lot of money for not much effort' to give you time and resources, but you should not get distracted thinking that is the way you want to live your life. what you want, is to live your life doing something that helps you grow, that in the doing renews, and that, well you can put your whole self into. and because in the doing it renews, well, you have an abundance to share with your family as well.