People should give people what they want and what they need.
They should avoid giving them things that are bad for them.
Hard to say what is what though absolutely.
But in general, for most people, there are a few good principles.
Health is helpful.
Good character is helpful.
Mental wellness, forgiveness, love, reflection, are helpful.
People want spending money, sex, and adrenaline.
But would probably do better with financial independence, minimalism, and peace and joy.
Said in another way, those are spices, not the whole meal.