For he is unhappy, king though he be, if he think of himself. - Blaise Pascal, Pensees
Go and like stop thinking about yourself.
Basically flow states and being a positive force in the world.
Games you play.
All games internal.
The thing is not to have the thing, not to need the thing, but to do the thing because it is something that in the doing, renews, and to do the thing with right intent, and with right effort.